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Flowers Friday: When I met The Man edition


A year ago today was the start of what got dubbed Freezing for Flowers – the winter leg of Brandon Flowers Flamingo tour which involved lots of standing around (LOTS!!) in freezing cold temperatures along the Eastern Seaboard. It was a week of pure insanity but so tremendously fun and exciting and worth every minute of losing sensation in my extremities!

I was lucky enough – starting with a year ago tonight in Boston – to get to meet Brandon and since I’ve never written a post about it here I thought the first anniversary of that surreal moment was probably a good time. It will explain how my worship of him is not just about the music and the lusting!

The logistics of the meeting are basically that we were freezing – and then we got invited to meet Brandon! (yes, invited! Crazy right??) I was with Sarah and Jackie and we did not know what to expect. In retrospect we all thought that someone would meet us and ask what we wanted signed, would go get it from him, and then come back and give it to us. Not that he’d actually be standing there all nicely showered and Sharpie in hand just WAITING TO MEET US!

So we meet Brandon Flowers – and here’s the thing – that guy on stage who is so brash and in command and strutting all over the place like the Rock Star he was born to be – is nothing like that in person: he’s very quiet and shy and when you get over the shock that you’re meeting him (did I mention he was just STANDING THERE WAITING FOR US?!??) you have to adjust to the shock that he’s not That Guy on Stage.

I will say I was totally well-behaved and didn’t freak out or scream in his face or molest him or anything. He could not have been more gracious to us and I was in no way going to mess that up by going full-on Fangirl in his (pretty) face. I was lucky a few more times that week to be “granted an audience” and whether or not he ever remembered me – he was always unfailingly polite and generous with his time.

So I love him for lots of reasons that can be found all over this blog. But these experiences made me truly appreciate him beyond the talent and the looks: he is such a genuinely nice man. He gives a firm handshake and looks you right in the eye as you’re talking to him. He leans in to listen and he answers questions honestly and never makes you feel like you’re a total dope for rattling on to him about some sort of Crafty Thing you’ve gifted him with, or how much you love the album, or how great the show was.

So I love his voice and his music, I think he’s probably the most Beautiful Man I’ve Ever Seen, but beyond all that he’s a really good person – and I think that above all is what makes him so worthy of all the time and attention and adoration that I – and so many others – give him.

(dedicated with love to the whole Freezing for Flowers 2010 crew: Sarah, Jill, Jackie, Lauren, Kimberly, Martha, Nancy and JoAnne – xoxo – Amy)



Author: Amy H. Johnson

Amy H. Johnson is the author of The Fangirl Files a memoir about Boy Bands, TV Boyfriends and imaginary betrothals to 80s English pop stars. She prefers to be referred to as a "Cute Famous Boy Aficionado".

3 thoughts on “Flowers Friday: When I met The Man edition

  1. Awww I’m so sentimental reading this! This tour was such a special gift that gave us moments of music glory and hilarious conversations in line and tour bus mayhem (and a huge list of quotes that we will be reciting for life!) It’s something I’ll never forget and it’s even more wonderful that we all got to share in this together with the best group of fangirls out there. Everything was 100% worth it. If I had to lose a hand to hypothermia, it’d be for this!

    And everything you said about Brandon was so spot-on. He wasn’t arrogant douchebag artist and he wasn’t nervous-I-hate-being-around-people artist. He was just lovely and kind and gracious to devote a few minutes to us, who just wanted to tell him how much we loved him and his material and to pick that Flowers brain a bit. And how many other people can you say that about? Beauty, brains, and brilliant talent. Thy name is Brandon ❤

  2. Aw, now why did you have to go and do that? Now I love him more. How can this be?

    Seriously- it’s nice to know our fandom is not wasted!

    (Psst- Nathan Fillion is an awesome guy as well.)

    • Oh yes! I’ve met Nathan Fillion too and he could not have been MORE delightful and lovely (there’s a post about it in the 25 Days of Imaginary Men)

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